Things to remember in a relationship
- Let the other person know how proud you are of them
- Remind yourself and the other of all the good things about the relationship.
- Remember the positive reasons to stay together
- If all they are remembering is the bad, it’s your job to remind them of the good.
- If they ask for your support, give it to them
- If they call you asking for a hug, give it to them first before anything else
- If you think they need a hug, give it to them
- Always remember the importance of their reality
- Always remember to look forward to spending your life with the other person
- If they say they aren’t “feeling it”, give them reasons to
- If you’ve paid your dues in the beginning, give yourselves the chance to reap the benefits of staying together through it.
- Trust each other
-JCT
