I’ve been guilty of too much too soon, and also too much too late.  Man it’s all about balance and paying attention to the energy you are getting back from the other person.  The last one I was in I took way too long and I knew I was taking too long.  All the signs were there from her that it would have been okay to step it up, but I didn’t. I wasn’t giving myself the okay to go with it even though she was.  It’s a very sad thing for me and for her too I’m sure. But now I’m ready to share my heart with someone new and have her share her newness with me the right way this time. I’m so ready!

– JCT (a conversation with my good friend GL)