I guess it comes down to a matter of perspective. It’s sad how many people view relationships as a medium to having something taken away from their lives instead of seeing it as something they can receive. Change doesn’t frighten me. What frightens me is non communication. It’s not about compromise or sacrifice; it’s about being mature enough to realize that sometimes it’s extremely beneficial to trust in this (new) person. I’d rather trust and listen (learn) from someone than put them in a position to say “I told you so” down the road

– Joe Tesoro, Jr. 2004