Month: March 2011

Words Stronger Than Actions…

…it’s sad because it’s not always true that actions speak louder than words.  Sometimes words are more important than actions.  I haven’t figured out why with so many things actions are stronger than words, but with love if we don’t tell the other person we love them, the actions of the love seem to mean less. The most magical 8 letters together in the world are: I Love You.  Don’t forget to use those letters…and often at that –...

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Pretending…

I once said to someone, “You pretend to be tough but when toughness comes back it throws you off”.  I’m certainly not proud of this statement, but the lesson I learned form it  is that you cannot tell someone that they are pretending when it is you that is pretending. So as I update myself on this lesson I’ve realized that some statements are  really just nonsense that have no meaning, other than to be mean: This was one of them. And to the person I said this to, allow me to apologize… –...

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Consequences for Not Thinking…

The consequences for not thinking about things before you say them are that you give the other person an insight as to what you look like when you take the easy way out. This is not an impression that you want someone relying on when making a value assessment on you –...

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Practicing Apologies…

People that live in apologies are not living — they are practicing – JCT (said to someone important to me before realizing how it was relating to me. See back story for more) (click for back story)  ...

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