Month: March 2011

Chemistry…

I always found it fascinating how people are designed (or that they design themselves a certain way).  It’s so fascinating to me how we all go about our plan to find the one person that gets us, and that we get, and that is along the same path as us.  I think that what I’ve learned about myself over the years is that I don’t particularly rely on a sense of discerning with my mind, but rather a much larger picture I get by encompassing all of what someone is presenting.  The biggest lesson I’ve learned in the last year is that I wasn’t always accurate in my portrayal of someone’s reality.  My reality actually got in the way of some amazing things that could have happened in my life.  And so I’ve learned to ask questions, to believe what someone is telling me, to believe the emotions they are giving me….until it’s time to not believe them. Something  I’ve learned about chemistry is that, for the most part, we’ve all been on autopilot as to what “chemistry” truly means.  And we’ve all been bullied into believing that chemistry is an automatic, instant thing.  But to me that approach actually dilutes the beauty of chemistry. Chemistry, like love, can and should develop over time. Many years ago I was talking with a friend about “falling in love”.  I said...

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Second Chances…

Second chances are our first chance to approach something with newfound perspective. And with new perspective, things can change… – JCT

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Facing Reality…

If I spend time facing reality it will allow me more time to be real and less time pretending what is real – JCT (in a conversation with Dad)

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