Month: January 2011

Looking Back on Things…

I look back on things and realize that sometimes I was an uptight jerkface.  I should have thought about how my stupidity and immaturity would impact you and others before I subjected them to my reactions.  I’ve lost a great deal in my life because I didn’t give myself the benefit of realizing that what I was about to say or do would impact you and others in my life — and not in a good way.  I hope that I can be a better friend to you from now on…. – JCT (in a conversation with my friend Vanessa...

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All About Balance

I’ve been guilty of too much too soon, and also too much too late.  Man it’s all about balance and paying attention to the energy you are getting back from the other person.  The last one I was in I took way too long and I knew I was taking too long.  All the signs were there from her that it would have been okay to step it up, but I didn’t. I wasn’t giving myself the okay to go with it even though she was.  It’s a very sad thing for me and for her too I’m sure. But now I’m ready to share my heart with someone new and have her share her newness with me the right way this time. I’m so ready! – JCT (a conversation with my good friend...

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Growing Older is a Gift…

Growing older is the gift of life we are lucky to get.  And as long as we do something with the experience that led us to today, we are more likely to benefit and enjoy it to the fullest.  It would be a tragedy to get to the end of our time and realize that the only thing stopping us from the greatness we seek is us…...

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